Gulp! This really resonated with me, Patricia. It reminded me of an instance not too long ago when I visited a relative with diminished vision. Her floors were covered in crumbs and bits of kitty litter so I took the liberty of cleaning her floors without asking. I just assumed she'd appreciate it, but it turned out she was offended and found my actions presumptuous. I definitely learned a lesson that day. I like your approach to consider whether someone is asking for help. At the same time, some people won't ever ask for help or admit when they're struggling so it can be hard to find the balance. Thank you for sharing your client's POV on this. Very helpful.
Gulp! This really resonated with me, Patricia. It reminded me of an instance not too long ago when I visited a relative with diminished vision. Her floors were covered in crumbs and bits of kitty litter so I took the liberty of cleaning her floors without asking. I just assumed she'd appreciate it, but it turned out she was offended and found my actions presumptuous. I definitely learned a lesson that day. I like your approach to consider whether someone is asking for help. At the same time, some people won't ever ask for help or admit when they're struggling so it can be hard to find the balance. Thank you for sharing your client's POV on this. Very helpful.
You are most welcome. That is a tough situation with your relative’s floor. She may have taken it as judgment when your spirit of intent was loving.
It is ok to ask folks if you can help them, we just have to be prepared for a no thank you response. 💞
Sound advice!
LOL... hopefully not falling into the category at hand! ;)
This is great food for thought!!! Thanks for sharing.
I am pleased that you found value!
😂 Not at all. Highly appreciated.