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JFT Beach 🇬🇧 🏊 🧘‍♂️'s avatar

It is really tough. I am going through similar and so much guilt involved. So hard to change the relationship to being a care giver, so much sadness too. Good luck on your journey with this.

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Cathy R. Payne's avatar

This is so difficult. I’ve been there with my mother and it is not an easy time of life. My mother and I did become close, and we had a nice relationship. We are (in our 70’s) doing everything I can to age in place. We widened doors, removed carpet and tubs, added lighting, and have a 4’ x 6’ curbless shower with grab bars. Hopefully we can stay here.

You will make a good decision for your parents. Ditto what Stacy said about self care and good vibes.

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