The need to judge is an interesting aspect of humanity. We use our judgement and discernment in order to remain alive; we must be aware of our surroundings and on alert for trouble.
When judgement gets cranked up to ten, we need to be certain it is not messing with our ability to be at peace in the world. An overabundance of judging others can lead to loneliness, finding something wrong with everyone until there is no one left worthy of our trust.
That loneliness is a slippery slope often leading to isolation, sometimes creating feelings of persecution. All these people who have been deemed untrustworthy or less than us must be out to get us.
We did not come to this earth to live our lives feeling alone and isolated, nor to be heartbroken and scared; on the notary, we came here to re-member who we truly are by uniting, to use the best parts of each of us to elevate the lesser parts of us into wholeness.
We came here to Be Love together in paradise. It is most strange that those who are furthest away from love and unity are the loudest and the ones who are most proficient in uniting sects against those viewed “other” in their eyes. They use charisma combined with excellent storytelling abilities to stoke flames of fear in their followers; many of whom are those who have successfully used their own judgements as mentioned earlier, to isolate themselves. These loud talkers provide the lonely a target to pin all the bad feelings, judgements, suspicion, and otherness upon, fully relieving them of their responsibility to find love; now there is another who is obviously blocking them from all the good they deserve.
We humans can make life so difficult. We use our imaginations against our own access to peace. We create monsters and mighty foes in our mind, where truly there are only other humans, likely feeling as lost and lonely as we are.
Oh, what a wonderful world we could create if we abandoned our slings and arrows in favour of peaceful coexistence.
Look at the changes made to the environment during our recent Great Pause. I will not have a discourse here as to the reasons and theories of why humanity was sent to our collective rooms in this article, preferring to focus on the positive effects on the environment of the worldwide shut down.
I authored a poem in August 2019 about our need to consider our Earth Mother in our day to day lives.
Our Mother
Hear her cries.
She weeps not for herself
But for us
Her children
Humanity
The human race, who knows not
That they, I, we
Should slow down.
She knows we came to explore,
To live
To love one another and the bounties,
She, our Mother Sophia, has to offer.
But we, unlike children,
Have forgotten to play.
Patricia Meier
August 5, 2019
It seemed to fit what occurred in 2020, which was a short while after those inspired words made their way to the paper through my hand.
In my practice as a hypnotist, I see people struggling with judgement frequently.
“This bad thing happened to me and that is why my life sucks.”
“This person did me wrong”
“This thing at work is not fair.”
“My spouse is not the way I believe that should be…”
Their minds are filled with opinions of the way the world should be which leaves no room to find beauty, gratitude, or a way to peacefully compromise around the way things currently are. It is unfortunate to say the least.
My goal as a practitioner is to help clients trust their higher selves, to connect to their deep heart space, and find forgiveness of self and others. Learning to love, accept, and forgive oneself is the key to a peaceful life, a life capable of drawing positive, abundant experiences in.
Last weekend, I was back in class learning and experiencing Future Life Progression. In this class, I was the skeptic I must admit. I am a strong believer in Free Will and as such, I had trouble putting any stock in Future Life Progression, I judged it as being useless. How could it possibly be helpful? Well, let me tell you, I soon found out and I most definitely misjudged the protocol.
Day one of the Future Life Progression training focused on progressing to a later time in this present life I am living. My goals for the session were as follows: What could I focus on to ensure my later life was the best it could possibly be? The second question was, would I travel again in the future? Lastly, I wanted to have a better understanding of the role that sound healing would play in my life and how it would help the world, if at all.
I was facilitated into trance and directed to go to the time in life that would best answer my queries. I found myself parting the large leaves of a jungle to step out onto a lovely little secluded beach at the edge of the vast beautiful blue ocean. She asked me to look around for others; I found no one else there. The only other notable thing on the beach was a bleached piece of driftwood, large enough to serve as the perfect perch for gazing out onto the water.
Look at your hands and tell me what you see, she guided.
My hands are old, wrinkled, and very tanned. I am wearing the rings I have now; the wedding band with the tanzanite jewel, the amber on my right hand, and the Larimar ring that is currently uncomfortably snug; all fit beautifully upon my well-manicured hands.
What are you wearing? How does your hair look?
Laughing, I said I am wearing a bright tropical muumuu of sorts; loose, free, and cheerful. It is the only thing I wear. My hair is piled up in a voluminous bun, I have a full head of gorgeous gray locks and I am happy, content in my skin.
How old are you?
75, no 82, no 75… 75?
Where are you and what are you doing there?
I am on the island of Kawaii. Tears formed in my eyes and my voice choked with emotion. I was invited here by the true people of the islands. They accept me as one of them, connected by hearts and voices. I have come to participate in the circle to lend my voice to the task of helping people rise up. I do not live here permanently but I often come to help, to be a part of this sacred work. There are many who come to be a part of this circle, to rise up in energy. Some remain elevated after they leave us and others return multiple times as they work through the blocks they must to rise permanently.
That sounds beautiful. What are you doing now on the beach? Are there others joining you there?
No, there are no humans with me here on the beach but I am far from alone. I have come here to commune with the beings of the ocean. I sing to the dolphins and whales. They answer me and we share knowledge and love. I start to cry with the realization that they are still here on the planet. They are healthy, strong, and plentiful. They chose to stay and help humanity rise up.
Okay, I would like you to merge your present-day self in tune with your future self. Time collapses, allowing you to meet her in her time.
My present self meets her on the beach. She, my older, wiser self, takes my hands. We sit together on the driftwood and she looks deeply into my eyes. My hands cradled gently in here, I feel the great love in her heart, her love that she is surrounds me like a soft comforting blanket. She thanks me for going through all that I have to get us to this beautiful life she is living. She has gratitude for all the trials and tribulations, for my persistence, and growth.
She tells me that the feeling I have from her Is the feeling others have from me when I am at peace and connected to the best, loving part of me. She tells me that I must continue to do the forgiveness work of others, but most importantly, of myself.
She cautions me to let go of the anger and resentment that I am holding towards those who chose to pave the paradise that was the Earth. She told me that Mother Nature allowed those things to persist and should she choose, they would persist no more; placing images of a large concrete resort being swept easily out to sea.
Your resentment and anger on her behalf only serve to harden the heart of your physical self, she continued. If you do not let go of that negativity, you will not reach this possibility of living in paradise as your physical form will pay the price of your inner rage.
Let it go.
She surrounded me with her love and told me to continue to allow the future of my healing path to unfold, naturally.
It was a beautiful gift, this window into the possible future.
She also showed me that the work I and others were doing was not limited to the wealthy who could afford costly getaways in premium resorts; these circles were inclusive and all who had desire in their heart were welcome.
I thanked her for this visit and left this experience with hope and clear direction.
The following day offered a trip to the next possible life. Again, I was skeptical, not of the process this time, but of my ability to imagine such a thing. I was spent and fulfilled from the previous day’s adventure.
To be continued…
That was just beautiful! communicating with our future selves offers so much insight and hope for all of us! I am now wanting to connect with my future self to learn more about me! Love it! Thank you!